- Extent of play and which orifices are available. Who all can be penetrated (including the fluffers?), which holes are available on the players, etc.
- Which holes, if any, condoms are mandatory for.
- Can they call you names (whore, slut, bitch, cunt, etc.)?
- Can they fuck your face/throat or will you make all the movements when giving head?
- Is ass-to-mouth oral sex permitted? (Risk of stomach upset)
- Is ass to vaginal sex permitted? (Risk of UTI)
- Are watersports permitted?
- Can they slap you anywhere (ass, boobs, face)?
- Can they spit on you anywhere (including your face)?
Use of cell phones, still/video cameras: Unless you don’t mind your gang bang showing up on the Internet, I would *highly* encourage you to prohibit the use of cell phones and cameras in the fuck space. Make everyone check them at the door.
If you want the event recorded for your own use, have someone you trust operate the camera(s)
And though a bit of wine might loosen everyone up, you’ll want to avoid heavy alcohol consumption, largely to prevent things from getting out of hand, especially if you use random guys. Alcohol will also increase the chances of dehydration.
You may wish to write out the extent of play and list all of the performance rules and send them out to the bangers a few days or so before the gang bang to ensure they arrive familiar with them
Once you’ve gotten everyone assembled in the same room and are ready to begin, it’s a good idea to quickly refamiliarize everyone with the rules and safewords/signs, introduce the fluffers to everyone, and introduce the center.
There are any number of ways you can begin, but perhaps the most common is for the center to start by blowing and handjobbing the guys as they stand around her. The center can select a position she wants to be in and then the bangers can take up positions around her in order to begin fucking her. Each guy can fuck for 5-10 minutes, or until he cums, whichever is shorter, and then move to another hole or move out of the way to allow the next guy to step in.
Over the course of the next several minutes or hours, the center can move to different furniture, move into different positions, and/or switch around as she sees fit, with the bangers following her lead.
The gang bang continues until the center is ready to stop, the monitor stops the action due to concerns for the center, the time is up if a time limit was established, or the center outlasts all of the bangers.
You might consider some kind of game or competition to determine who gets first crack at fucking the center, or perhaps have a bidding war to see who’ll bid the highest amount for first penetration of either the vagina or ass (or chatiw con both). The money can be divided among those being compensated as tips.
If a significant other is present and participating as a banger, s/he should be the last person to engage the center. This will help re-establish their connection at the conclusion of the bang, something that may be critical to ensuring the emotions of both are drawn back together.
When my first gang bang was over I felt like a live electrical wire waiting to be discharged. I was physically exhausted; my legs/knees were sore; I was covered in cum, lube, sweat, and who knows what else; and I had to have someone help me to the shower. Still, I would have paid for someone to eat my cunt at that point. Many women underestimate the impact that a gang bang will have on them, physically and emotionally.